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Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 5:09 pm
Welcome to Day By Day’s Online Support Chat. Now our second one of each month. We will host this every 2nd Sunday of the month moving forward. Once again, welcome and please feel free to share you pet care giving or loss journey. We are here for you!

Guest_98

March 13, 2016 – 5:23 pm
Is anyone there?

Cordell

March 13, 2016 – 5:36 pm
Hello

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 5:44 pm
Hello and good evening. The chat will begin promptly at 7:00 p.m. EST.

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 5:46 pm
The time on the chat messages did not move forward an a hour, I hope that doesn’t confuse anyone

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 5:47 pm
Yes, with the time change we will have time altered on our system by next chat.

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 5:48 pm
Ok perfect

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 5:49 pm
Welcome Cordell. We are happy to have you join us this evening.

C

March 13, 2016 – 5:50 pm
This is Carlin’s mommy.

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 5:50 pm
Welcome Carlin’s mommy

C

March 13, 2016 – 5:51 pm
You start in 10 minutes, correct?

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 5:51 pm
Yes at 7pm

C

March 13, 2016 – 5:51 pm
Thank you Sandra.

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 5:54 pm
You are very welcome.

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 5:59 pm
Thank you for holding this tonight.

C

March 13, 2016 – 5:59 pm
Yes, thank you. I really need it.

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 5:59 pm
Hi Laura and welcome. Yes, we are added a second one to each month now so you don’t have to wait a whole month anymore! It will be every two weeks.

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:00 pm
That’s beautiful! Thank you.

C

March 13, 2016 – 6:01 pm
Do we speak out of turn, or how does this work?

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:01 pm
You can just start sharing whatever you’d like about your current care giving or loss journey.

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 6:02 pm
Hi everyone, welcome to our chat. I am Sandra and I facilitate support circles at Windcrest Animal Hospital and Saint Francis Veterinary Center.

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:02 pm
Thanks for being with us tonight Sandra.

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:02 pm
Thanks for being here, Sandra, such an important job. Much needed.

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 6:02 pm
Thanks for having me

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:04 pm
I had the most shocking & beautiful dream about my Mimi 1 wk ago. In it, I found her, alive, in my late Grandmother’s room. I was SO shocked, in awe of how she was alive & survived these months by herself! It took a second when I woke up to remember she is really gone. I can cry just typing this.

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:04 pm
Good evening to all!

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:04 pm
AS we begin tonight I would like to ask for special prayers for a little kitten (8 months old) named Wingel who DBD helped financially get a surgery done today to correct a broken femur.

C

March 13, 2016 – 6:04 pm
ok. I had Carlin put to sleep on 2/11 @ 2pm. I couldn’t even take him to the vet. My parents had to. I have so much guilt now that I didn’t go along. I’m sure he would have wanted his mother there. I cry every day. I picked his ashes up today at my parents’ home and just miss him so very very much. We were so close.

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:04 pm
Hi Judy!

C

March 13, 2016 – 6:05 pm
I will pray for Wingel

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:05 pm
Prayers & all positive thoughts for Wingel.

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:05 pm
Hi Laura and all. Yes, prayers for Wingel!

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 6:05 pm
Prayers for Wingel

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:05 pm
C, deep & sincere condolences :'(

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:06 pm
Laura, what a beautiful dream about Mimi. She’s telling you she’s ok, yes?

C

March 13, 2016 – 6:06 pm
He went thru just about 4 mos. of chemo.to no avail. Non-responsive to b-cell and t-cell lymphoma protocols. So sad to have put him through all that.

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:07 pm
We are so very sorry for the loss of Carlin. Guilt is one of the strongest emotions we feel after loss.

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:07 pm
Thank you for sharing your dream, Laura. C – I have a sense that you cared for Carlin very much as did all that you could for him.

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:07 pm
Kathryn, I definitely want to think so! At first I didn’t know what to make of it, but – esp. the fact it took place in that room, it’s like…maybe she’s safe w/ my grandma. Thanks for listening.

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:07 pm
Hi Judy. How is our sweet Abby? I like to think of her as my little doggie niece!

C

March 13, 2016 – 6:08 pm
I don’t know if I really did. I didn’t try Adriamycin, which is a rescue chemo. I’m crying now, so very hard to type.

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:08 pm
Oh how very, very sweet of you, Kathryn.

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:08 pm
C, you couldn’t do more & that speaks volumes, the care you showed.

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:09 pm
C – your love for Carlin is very evident…

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 6:09 pm
C, just because there is a treatment out there it does not mean it would have worked for your Carlin. You are a great mommy and Carlin knows that.

C

March 13, 2016 – 6:09 pm
I miss him terribly and that so very sweet face looking at me for long periods to time is just hurting so bad.

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:10 pm
C (I thought I sent a msg but somehow it guess it disappeared) – the care you showed speaks volumes.

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:10 pm
Abby is doing well. I took her to the emergency vet in town of Friday night since she was not peeing at all. As it turns out, she started again and is doing as well as possible despite her continuing renal failure.

C

March 13, 2016 – 6:10 pm
I don’t feel that way.

Barbara

March 13, 2016 – 6:11 pm
Hi All sorry to be ;ate

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 6:11 pm
Welcome Barbara

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:11 pm
Hi Barbara

C

March 13, 2016 – 6:11 pm
Judy: did you cut back on Abby’s protein?

C

March 13, 2016 – 6:11 pm
Hi Barbara

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:11 pm
Abby is doing pretty well. I had to take her to the emergency vet on Friday night since she stopped peeing. It turned out that she was fine and is peeing again.

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:12 pm
Bless her!

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:12 pm
c – can you tell us more about Carlin?

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:12 pm
Scary isn’t it? They keep you on your toes and then we resume as normal. Yeah Abby!

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:13 pm
Welcome Barbara. Thanks for joining us.

C

March 13, 2016 – 6:13 pm
Carlin went to Rainbow Bridge on 2/11 @ 2pm. He had large cell lymphoma.

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:13 pm
Hi Jennifer! So glad you could join us this evening. How are you?

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:14 pm
Hello,

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:14 pm
Thank you, I am doing alright.

Barbara

March 13, 2016 – 6:14 pm
I lost my Oscar a best friend for 12 years. Am feeling so empty without him.

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:14 pm
C

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 6:15 pm
C, is Carlin a dog or cat?

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:15 pm
Oh Barbara, I’m so sorry to hear

C

March 13, 2016 – 6:15 pm
I printed out the very last picture I took of Carlin on 2/11. I printed it out last night. He looked sad. I sure wish I could communicate with him.

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:15 pm
I know that Abby should have less protein – but she is hardly eating anything except chicken and beef.

C

March 13, 2016 – 6:15 pm
Carlin was an all white cat from Hurricane Katrina. He would have been 11 this coming May.

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:15 pm
Sorry- I am on a difficult computer. CJ is showing more effects from his cancer, but continues to fight.

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:16 pm
Carline sounds beautiful!

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:16 pm
Oops, I meant Carlin…

C

March 13, 2016 – 6:16 pm
Jennifer: What kind of cancer does CJ have?

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 6:17 pm
Aww C, Carlin was such a survivor That is so great that you saved him from Hurricane Katrina.

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:17 pm
He was very brave!

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:17 pm
Jennifer, when you say more signs of his cancer are you referring to his quality of life?

C

March 13, 2016 – 6:17 pm
I’m from PA so he came a long way to be with me.

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:18 pm
Carlin’s such an inspiration to us all.

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:18 pm
How wonderful that you rescued him, C!

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:19 pm
Jennifer: what kind of cancer?

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:19 pm
Thanks, Kathryn.

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:19 pm
CJ has a mesastatic colonic adenocarcinoma, which means a very aggressive tumor in his colon that has spread through his lymph nodes to his liver and who knows where else

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:19 pm
Is CJ getting chemo?

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:20 pm
He is still eating and drinking and still playing with his brother and I, but he is going to the bathroom more and is more tired- possibly due to the cancer or the chemo. He is doing chemo and has not had many side effects.

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:21 pm
Day By Day right everyone? Its such a journey….

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 6:21 pm
Jennifer, that sounds tough for CJ. It is great to hear that he is still playing with his brother and still going to the bathroom, though.

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:22 pm
Very true, Kathryn. It is one day at a time when caring for a sick baby.

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 6:22 pm
Yes Kathryn, Day By Day it is.

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:23 pm
The last few nights that Carlin was with me, he let out a “yelp”. I believe he was trying to tell me something. I spoke with Dr. Craig Clifford, Oncologist, and he said that that was probably his way of telling me he’s in pain. I NEVER heard him do that before. So, Jennifer, if you hear any unusual sounds, not too good. They try to communicate with us.

Guest_182

March 13, 2016 – 6:23 pm
dawn thanks kathryn for all of your help when our autumn passed

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:23 pm
I take him to the vet every two weeks to be monitored and they know that I do not want to see his quality of life diminish, so his oncologist is helping me to monitor, as I am very emotional. It is good to know that she will help me to be sure I am doing what is best for him

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:24 pm
It is very normal that you are emotional, Jennifer. These are very challenging days for you.

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:24 pm
I get very emotional about Abby’s end of life challenges too…

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:25 pm
You are most welcome Dawn. So good you could join us this evening. How are you and your family?

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:25 pm
Talk about emotional. I’ve never been like this. I know about emotional, Jennifer.

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:25 pm
Thank you Carlin, having CJ in pain is something I do not want and cats are so good at hiding it, so I will keep an ear on him as we are enjoying our time together.

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:26 pm
Thank you Judy, I am so glad I have this time with him, but you are correct, this is very difficult

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:26 pm
I sure do hope we will see all of our beloved pets again. I feel like I have so much fear in me. Afraid of everything right now.

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:26 pm
Grief is like no other journey we will take and as we know it starts far before loss. Anticipatory grief is very real and it comes with the roller coaster of emotions we all have experienced.

Denise

March 13, 2016 – 6:26 pm
Good Evening Everyone.

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:26 pm
Hi Denise.

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:27 pm
Hi Denise!!! So good to have you with us. What’s the update?

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:27 pm
So very true, Kathryn.

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:27 pm
Hi Denise

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:27 pm
Hi Denise

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:27 pm
Carlin, I can relate. I am usually not a very emotional person, so this is a new experience for me.

Guest_182

March 13, 2016 – 6:27 pm
we are doing good kathryn thank you my buttercup will be 13 in april and sandy just turned 6 months old i still miss autumn so much i wish my husband would call and talk to you he is still having a very hard time with it he cries alot at night i feel so bad

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 6:27 pm
Jennifer, cats are so good at hiding their pain. You are doing a great job of monitoring him to make sure that he is not in distress.

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:28 pm
Carlin, I am sorry to hear that you are still feeling fear. I cannot even imagine being where you are at this point. I am so sorry for your loss!

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:28 pm
C, I am currently writing a blog piece about seeing our pets again in the after life. It will be a good piece you will want to read…I promise!

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:28 pm
Jennifer, does CJ have a “quiet space”?

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:28 pm
Thanks, Kathryn

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:28 pm
Wonderful, Kathryn. I can’t wait too.

Denise

March 13, 2016 – 6:28 pm
Diamond’s prednisone has been increased to 20 mg/day. She’s like her old self. So like everyone else we are enjoying our time, knowing this is only temporary

Guest_182

March 13, 2016 – 6:28 pm
when will you have it posted and will it be on facebook

Denise

March 13, 2016 – 6:29 pm
But I

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:29 pm
Thank you Sandra!

Denise

March 13, 2016 – 6:29 pm
But I will take this if only for a short time so we can have some more memories

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 6:29 pm
Denise, does Diamond have cancer?

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:30 pm
Kathryn, that’s the best news! Thank you, I look forward to reading it. I actually searched for such a book soon after.

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:30 pm
CJ loves hiding under the bed as his “quiet space” He also enjoys sunning in the window where he has a cat perch.

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:31 pm
Denise, I don’t think after our conversation last week that either of us expected that Diamond would be her old self again. It’s a gift….I’m so elated that you both have more time together.

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:31 pm
I sort of knew when Carlin came up from the basement, ate a tiny bit, went down to the basement again, came up to eat a tiny bit, went down to basement again. His “quiet space was down there on a very comfy blanket. He didn’t even want to be with me. AND, that was just not Carlin. So, I know cats can hide it well, but there really are signs.

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:32 pm
Mimi kept finding new spots…

Denise

March 13, 2016 – 6:32 pm
She was not diagnosed with Cancer. We know that she has severe arthritis and COPD. Along with hyperparathyroid, hypothyroid, addisons, liver disease (due to steroids), digestives problems

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:32 pm
Prednisone can do wonders. Carlin was only on 5mg in am and 5 mg at night.

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:33 pm
Thank you Carlin, this helps. CJ is still social- he is actually laying with me as I am typing. Strangely, he has been my comfort though his illness, and this gifted time we have together is such a blessing.

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:33 pm
Denise: Is there a smoker in the house?

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:33 pm
The blog piece will be done by next week. I’ve been doing some wonderful research and there are many mentions in the Bible that all of God’s creation will be reunited. ALL of God’s creation. He made the sun, the moon, the animals and it was all GOOD!

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:33 pm

Denise

March 13, 2016 – 6:33 pm
Diamond has always been on pred because of the addisons but never 20 mg for an extended period

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:33 pm
Very comforting, Kathryn

Barbara

March 13, 2016 – 6:33 pm
Looking forward to it Kathryn

Denise

March 13, 2016 – 6:34 pm
No smokers in the house but we got her when she was 6 years old (now 13)

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:34 pm
Bless you for this, Kathryn!!! The fact that these loved ones have souls cannot be questioned!

Guest_182

March 13, 2016 – 6:35 pm
thanks kathryn iam looking forward to reading your blog you are the most caring person i am so glad you have day by day its such a blessing *** bless you and your family talk to you soon

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:35 pm
Knowing that i will see my fur babies again is always a comfort!

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:35 pm
Laura: I know they have souls, but it’s horrible missing them so much.

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:36 pm
??

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:37 pm
Denise: Did she come from a “smoker’s house”? Because, I smoke, but only outside. I had a lilac point that I watched and he couldn’t even take a breath. Talk about guilt? I killed that cat.

Denise

March 13, 2016 – 6:37 pm
It is Carlin. But At times I feel that Raven is still around

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:37 pm
I continually work on accepting more fully that my babies came from *** and will return to ***. I KNOW we will be reunited!

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:37 pm
Oops, that at G-O-D not ***.

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 6:38 pm
Diamond sure has a lot of medical diagnoses but it sounds like you are doing a good job monitoring, Denise

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:38 pm
Maybe now that I have Carlin’s ashes on my mantle, I can feel his spirit w/ me.

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:38 pm
I hope that you also feel Carlin in your heart!

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:39 pm
All day every day he is in my heart.

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:39 pm
Yes!

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:39 pm
Carlin, have you taken time to go and be in your baby’s favorite quiet space?

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:39 pm
I know he wouldn’t want mt to cry all the time, but I can’t stop

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:40 pm
No, I can hardly even go in the basement. I cry too much.

Denise

March 13, 2016 – 6:40 pm
And you will remain in his heart Carlin

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:41 pm
The depression is so severe.

Barbara

March 13, 2016 – 6:41 pm
The sadness is overwhelming. Am hoping the crying will not be as frequent

Guest_182

March 13, 2016 – 6:42 pm
i will be praying for you carlin

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:42 pm
You are absolutely right, Barbara. The sadness is overwhelming. Crying is healthy though.

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:42 pm
Thanks, Guest 182

Barbara

March 13, 2016 – 6:42 pm
it just comes on so unexpectedly with a thought or memory

Denise

March 13, 2016 – 6:44 pm
Kathryn, how many steps of healing are there?

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:44 pm
The emotions associated with grief will soften over time. The depression and other deep emotions are a testament to the bond you shared. You have been bereaved…torn apart from your precious fur baby. Grief is the hardest work we will ever do. :o( There is hope out of the darkness…that I promise you.

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:44 pm
I looked at Carlin’s cat carrier and the blanket I used to put him in to go to the Oncologists. It was at my parents’ house. When I saw it, I lost it and my Dad keeps saying, “he’s gone, forget it”. I hate that when he says that.

Denise

March 13, 2016 – 6:45 pm
I am trying to understand why for Raven

Barbara

March 13, 2016 – 6:45 pm
Oh so sorry. Not everyone will understand how big your loss is

Guest_182

March 13, 2016 – 6:45 pm
your welcome carlin we lost our corgi autumn to cancer in october and she almost made her twelve birthday it was so hard and my husband is still having trouble dealing with her gone he cries alot at night and he worries about our other corgi who will be 13 in april he has been depressed for a long time i wish he would call kathryn

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:46 pm
Carlin, I find that people who do not know the bond of a pet struggle to understand the deep hurt their illness and death can cause. It’s ok to be upset

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:47 pm
This group is a gift as we understand each other’s struggles and pain.

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:47 pm
Agreed!

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:47 pm
Grief isn’t linear. It ebbs and flows…going from emotion to emotion without us ever knowing which one will come next. Sadness, depression, anger, guilt, etc. They will all come and go less frequently as you move through your grief journey into healing. Allowing yourself to mourn and having support while you do that is key. We all want to avoid the pain but when it comes to grief we actually have to move towards it, have support from empathetic people and continue to find meaning in our lives after loss. Share your thoughts and feelings, cry, remember the life you shared with your beloved.

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:47 pm
Jennifer, my parents have a cat.

Guest_182

March 13, 2016 – 6:48 pm
praying for everyone on here tonight

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:48 pm
Me too!

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:48 pm
Thanks, and prayers for each of you as well, xx

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:51 pm
And each of you are a gift to us here at DBD. We feel honored and blessed that we can be here for you on your care giving, decision-making and loss journey. It is a real privilege to be the company of such amazing pet parent/caregivers.

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:51 pm
Praying for all the sick animals everywhere., and the healthy ones too. And, all of us communicating with each other tonight. It really does help. It will be 5 weeks this coming Thur. at 2pm. that we parted. And the guilt that I couldn’t even take my own beloved cat to the vet. for the euthanasia reallys upsets me…

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 6:52 pm
Denise, there are many theories for understanding grief. I personally like Worden’s Tasks of Mourning. The four tasks are 1. To accept the reality of the loss 2. To work through the pain of the grief 3. To adjust to an environment in which the deceased is missing 4.To find an enduring connection with the deceased while embarking on a new life.

Barbara

March 13, 2016 – 6:52 pm
You did the best you could!

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 6:52 pm
Just like Kathryn said these are not linear steps but it does help me to see examples.

Barbara

March 13, 2016 – 6:53 pm
Thanks for sharing that Kathryn

Denise

March 13, 2016 – 6:54 pm
Don’t Carlin. You did what you could handle and he understands that

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:54 pm
Sandra- those steps are helpful and seem to make sense

Guest_182

March 13, 2016 – 6:54 pm
good night everyone have a blessed week and thanks again kathryn for your wonderful services

Laura

March 13, 2016 – 6:54 pm
Take care, Friends, & thanks again, Kathryn!

Carlin

March 13, 2016 – 6:55 pm
Good night to all. And, thank you EVERYONE. And a special thank you to Kathryn.

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:55 pm
Carlin- you did your best and he knows that you love him- animals sense that better than most humans.

Denise

March 13, 2016 – 6:55 pm
Thanks Sandrs

Barbara

March 13, 2016 – 6:55 pm
Thanks to all! Always helpful

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:55 pm
I am quite certain that we all did (or are doing) the very best that we can for our beloved babies (and they know it).

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:56 pm
we are all very loving and caring people!

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:58 pm
Thanks for sharing everyone. We will be back online for our next chat on Wednesday, March 23 beginning at 7:00 p.m. EST. If any of you would like to attend an in-person support circle…the next one is this Wednesday, March 16 at Hope VS in Malvern, PA also beginning at 7:00 p.m. RSVP is you can make it!

Denise

March 13, 2016 – 6:58 pm
We all do the best that we can. I try to tell myself this over and over again at times I listen to myself and it is helpful to deal with the grief

Jennifer

March 13, 2016 – 6:58 pm
Thank you all, this group is very helpful!

Judy

March 13, 2016 – 6:59 pm
Thank you and blessings to all. Please be gentle with yourselves!

Guest_182

March 13, 2016 – 6:59 pm
when will next chat be on sunday

Sandra L

March 13, 2016 – 6:59 pm
Goodnight everyone thank you for sharing

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 6:59 pm
Next Sunday chat will be April 10th.

Denise

March 13, 2016 – 7:00 pm
Thank You everyone. My thoughts and prayers are with you all and our pets. Good night

Guest_182

March 13, 2016 – 7:00 pm
ok thanks

Kathryn

March 13, 2016 – 7:02 pm
Blessings to you all and your families